Author: Pondus
Subject: Cool Siberian Girl
Posted: 07/10/2013 at 9:43am
Chill out, Johan... people are just making some no-harm bantered comments about Nastya's nice looks... nothing wrong with that. You seem to have a completely warped view of what a healthy relationship looks like. By being with someone doesn't exclude you from recognizing the attractiveness of other people - and if you're in a situation where you can't do so, then your relationship is probably filled with all kinds of trust/jealousy/insecurity issues. My wife doesn't have an issue with me saying some other woman is "hot" or "cute", and neither do I if she thinks that of some dude. That stuff has nothing to do with commitment or relational bonds in any way, of course. I would imagine that once most people come out of their teens, those kinds of things don't really matter anymore (unless they suffer from personal issues as mentioned above). Saying that people are "fantasizing" about Nasty at a level of infidelity concern, simply because they make a comment about her being hot, is just wacko, bro. You must either base your viewpoint on some orthodox religious principles, or you frankly have some maturing to do in that department.
Subject: Cool Siberian Girl
Posted: 07/10/2013 at 9:43am
Chill out, Johan... people are just making some no-harm bantered comments about Nastya's nice looks... nothing wrong with that. You seem to have a completely warped view of what a healthy relationship looks like. By being with someone doesn't exclude you from recognizing the attractiveness of other people - and if you're in a situation where you can't do so, then your relationship is probably filled with all kinds of trust/jealousy/insecurity issues. My wife doesn't have an issue with me saying some other woman is "hot" or "cute", and neither do I if she thinks that of some dude. That stuff has nothing to do with commitment or relational bonds in any way, of course. I would imagine that once most people come out of their teens, those kinds of things don't really matter anymore (unless they suffer from personal issues as mentioned above). Saying that people are "fantasizing" about Nasty at a level of infidelity concern, simply because they make a comment about her being hot, is just wacko, bro. You must either base your viewpoint on some orthodox religious principles, or you frankly have some maturing to do in that department.
(Okay, that's enough Dr.Phil from me)